At the outset am making this clear to everyone who have dared to spend their precious time reading this useless article written by a guy who did not know what to do during a vetti sunday evening. This post is totally my opinion and if it indeed hurts anyone I am not sorry for you. And for all those who despite the above warning, have reached this line, you must have had friends who had girlfriends and vice versa who might have broken up. You might have had friends who after breaking up go in to depression. But my question is why do people go in to depression coz of this? Is it the end of the world if you break up? I mean, agar ye ladki nahi hai tho kya koi aur ladki nahi milegi? For example if I were lucky enough to fall in love with a girl, I would cherish every moment I spend with her. If it ends with us breaking up, I would be pained. But that does not mean I would be obsessed with her. I would get on with my life and continue thinking that the girl is just not worth my time, effort or love. And to me all these three are very precious. There have been instances when a couple that I know break up, but either the guy or the girl gets in to depression. I at times wonder when I talk to such people, “Arrey Yaar, you have been blessed enough to fall in love and experience the entire thing. Imagine someone like me who is/was/will always search for that one woman who just makes me go….”. Do not think am an insensitive ass. I have had my share of rejections too. But one cannot keep sitting and wondering why that’s the case. One cannot be obsessed too. And above all when god forbid people do break up, I believe one should just cherish the time spent together, cherish the fact that you were lucky enough to fall in love, and get on with it. There are infinite other things to be done during this short period called life.