Marriages vs. Being a virgin
Once again I was having this really stupid conversation with a colleague over lunch. Both being Indians, we were pretty much bought up in conservative setups. Our vetti conversation veered towards marriage and virginity and we were discussing if each of us would marry someone who was not a virgin! My colleague said that being a virgin or not being a virgin is immaterial. All that matters is the person’s character yada yada. I was of the opinion that it depends up on the degree of comfort of the individual in question. My colleague further asked me, what if the partner has had previous relationships? How does that affect marriage? I responded stating, again it is an individual choice. Personally I might be comfortable with a girl who has had relationships before but that does not mean everyone would react in a similar way right? Each and every individual is entitled to certain expectations from his/her would be and the individual should search accordingly for his life partner. This was what I said. Again my colleague asked me how can certain people reject girls just because the girls have had relationships previously? I was like look, those guys do have those preferences and expectations of what they want their fiancee to be. My colleague was like in that case the guys are not being open minded. I again replied its a question of how comfortable the guys would be with the knowledge that their partner has had relationships before.
P.S: If at all someone is offended, I do not give a flip about you getting offended…:P